AVOID THIS SEXUAL PITFALL, ENJOY A HAPPY SEX LIFE

There are a lot of common mistakes both men and women make in bed.  Some of these mistakes are not only common, they could be grave and they do destroy relationships.

Our focus presently is on women and we shall see below five of such biggest mistakes they make in bed.

FAKING ORGASMS

Ladies, one of the worst things you can do for your lovemaking is fake your orgasms with your man.  If he isn’t doing the things you need him to do to bring you to orgasm, then let him know so he can correct himself and learn to bring you great pleasure.  The problem won’t go away on it’s own by ignoring it.  It is your responsibility to teach him him what you need him to do to bring you to orgasm.  Faking it only reinforces in his mind that what he is doing is working for you.  When infact it isn’t.  Teach him the right way to push your buttons.

ACTING LIKE SEMEN IS TOXIC

Some ladies would scream their heads out if per chance the man’s semen rubs on their body.  They behave as if a man has committed an abomination by allowing his sperm to rub on their body.  Semen isn’t toxic, ladies, while you may choose not to injest it, you don’t have to avoid it completely, either.  It won’t hurt you.  Avoiding his semn could make him feel the same way you might feel if he runs to the shower immediately after sex.  He may feel like you are rejecting him or feel that you think he is dirty.

USING SEX ( OR LACK OF ) SEX AS A WEAPON

Some women withhold sex as punishment after an argument or disagreement with their husbands.  Sex should not be used as a bargaining chip to achieve what we want inside a relationship.  It is a physical and emotional sharing and expression of love between one another.  It is not a favour to be withheld.  Doing so can and often time’s does lead to tremendous conflict, resentment, anger and retaliatory behaviour and can easily threaten, destabilize and even destroy an otherwise healthy relationship.  Use sex as a way to make up and feel close again after an argument not as a means to rather punish your partner.  It is important to the vitality of the relationship to frequently engage in sex. 
Doing so will do more to keep you together  than can any childish game you could make up to withhold the love and intimacy that needs to be evidenced.  If you continue to use sex as a weapon the intimacy you feel from the special closeness that only lovemaking can bring will disappear and quite possibly the relationship too.

NOT OPEN OR WILLING TO TRY NEW THINGS.

Most women are not adventurous or creative when it comes to sex.  They want to do the same thing over and over.  When a man suggests a new love making position they simply refuse to go along with him.  Some women think it’s the man’s job to not only initiate sex. But also to do all the work during sex too.  If you are one of the ladies who do this, you really have to learn to take a more active role in the bedroom  You are at least partially responsible for your own pleasure.  You can’t expect your man to do everything while you just lie there

Here is a 1996 survey indicating what American men like in women.  It clearly shows that willingness to do anything new is one thing men like most in women.

Stamina    9.1%

Large Breasts     10.3%

Good Sexual Technique  11.9%

Good Body 19.2%

Sense of humor  20.2%

Being Clean 24.5%

Willing to Try Anything 33.3%

MENTIONING ANOTHER MAN

When you are in bed with your man, never use the words, “my ex used to …. Or, “my guy I once dated would ….” Or anything similar.  It may seem like harmless little details you are sharing with him.  But most guys would take it very personally.  Most of us know that you probably have a past.  We just don’t want to think much about it especially in the bedroom.

This is another common but big mistake women make.  Whether done consciously or unconsciously.  It is something that destroys a relationship.  Every woman should know this.